tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6134391748145780272024-02-06T22:43:22.239-05:00Making [social] ChangeFollow the journey of a student, wife, advocate, and homeowner, changing the world one life at a time.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.comBlogger258125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-1215721592686946622011-07-01T08:41:00.002-04:002011-07-01T09:13:06.108-04:00Action in Bond HillThis summer I upped my hours with the Butler County Rape Crisis Program to about 25 hours/week. Yesterday, about 3 of those hours were spent at the groundbreaking at St. Aloysius Orphanage in Bond Hill. What does St. Al's have to do with Rape Crisis? Well, last year the Community Counseling and Crisis Center (RCP's parent organization) merged with/was absorbed by St. Aloysius out of Cincinnati. The merger allowed St. Al's to continue to expand into Butler County while keeping the CCCC fiscally afloat. I don't know or understand all of the details of the merger, but I do know that now us folk at Rape Crisis are affiliated with the folk at St. Al's. So there ya go.<br /><br />In support of our new parent organization (or would it be our grandparent organization?), we attended the ceremonial groundbreaking for a new expansion to St. Aloysius on Reading Road in Bond Hill. It is a BEAUTIFUL building, and they will be adding on an addition (how redundant of me) to include more classrooms, a new cafeteria, and other neat stuff. It's the first major rennovation in the organization's 175-year history. Wowza.<br /><br />But what fun would it be to just tell you about it. <a href="http://www.wcpo.com/dpp/news/region_central_cincinnati/bond_hill/st.-aloysius-orphanage-breaks-ground-on-expansion">Here's</a> Channel 9 WCPO's take on the day! If you watch the video package you will see an artist's rendering of the new addition, and if you look closely in the "crowd" shot, you'll see me standing in the background (focus on the left side of the screen).<br /><br />After a few inspiring words from some important people (like Mayor Mark Mallory, as depicted in the video), it was time for the "groundbreaking." Of course, the dirt was already dug up in a little raised bed behind the podium, complete with about 10 golden shovels (I kid you not--they were some good looking shovels!) wedged in the dirt. About 20 people donned white hard hats and took turns posing with their shovels in the dirt. By the third round of photos, my adventurous boss Jane and RCP's board president decided to get down with a golden shovel, too. I wish I had the picture. Boo.<br /><br />And that concludes my first ever ceremonial groundbreaking. Looking back, I should have gotten in on the shovel action. Oh well. I guess it's best that we didn't linger too long in Bond Hill because apparently the FBI raided the Community Action Agency. Yesterday. The FBI. For real. The search warrant is sealed so there aren't many details yet, but you can check out the story <a href="http://www.wcpo.com/dpp/news/local_news/feds-raid-community-action-center-in-bond-hill">here</a>. I mean, really? What the what?Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-91692208727326853742011-06-23T20:55:00.002-04:002011-06-23T21:54:22.626-04:00Dear Future Me,I just found a really cool website I thought I would share. It's called <a href="http://www.futureme.org/">FutureMe.org</a> where you can write a letter to yourself, determine the delivery date, and the creators of the site will send you the email on the day you selected. So in a strange back-to-the-future-electronic-time-capsule kind of way, you can communicate your memories of the past and hopes for the future all in a simple email. For free!<br /><br />If you're worried that this website won't be around when it comes time to receive your message, they've been in business since 2002, so odds are they'll be around in a year or two when you're looking for an email from yourself. And if you're worried about your privacy or the security of your letter, they don't sell any email addresses or information you provide, so there will be no spam clogging your inbox. You can also set your email to be privately delivered, or you can allow it to be publicly and anonymously posted on their website (and <a href="http://www.futureme.org/letters/recently_delivered?offset=10">some</a> are pretty interesting to read if you get a chance).<br /><br />So check it out! I think I might write myself a letter, too. Though in a sense, I guess this blog has loosely served as a letter to myself for a couple of years now. Not bad.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-75938155597509186162011-06-21T22:51:00.002-04:002011-06-21T23:22:29.480-04:00All the single ladiesToday I did my weekly Meals-on-Wheels route (first mentioned <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2011/01/meals-on-wheels.html">here</a>). Since I began the route in January, 4 people have been added to my route--all women, all single--bringing my total to 9 lovely ladies in Price Hill. During that time, I have really gotten to know the residents on my route, and they seem to enjoy seeing me each Tuesday. I have connected with one woman who always invites me in to "sit down for a minute." She loves showing me pictures, talking about her family, and telling stories about her life. And before I know it, a minute has evolved into an hour and I don't want to leave! Time flies when the conversation is easy.<br /><br />It's fun to do special little things for the ladies, too. For example, when one woman asked me to help her get a fan for her bedroom, I went back to the Sedamsville, asked around, and uncovered an unused box fan in one of the offices. The following week, I delivered the fan to her house along with her meals. She couldn't believe I had secured a fan for her, let alone remembered her request! Or how about the woman who recently celebrated her 85th birthday. That week, I delivered a bouquet of flowers from me with her meal. The look on her face as she opened the door and realized the flowers were for her was priceless. And for two weeks after that, the flowers stayed in a vase on her coffee table where she showed them off to friends and family, even after they had wilted and died. I felt good that I had made her happy with the flowers, but I felt even better that she had invited me into her life to begin with.<br /><br />Each of the participants in my program are uniquely different, yet all of them offer comfort and wisdom in the brief moments we share together. It is these interactions and special moments that show me the value of this program. Not only does Meals-on-Wheels provide nutritious food to homebound seniors, it also provides opportunities for invaluable social interaction. And I love being a part of that.<br /><br />If you ever have a lunch hour free, I would encourage you to connect with your local Meals-on-Wheels program. You'll be surprised how much you find yourself looking forward to your next delivery day.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-12365894220460038992011-06-17T16:27:00.002-04:002011-06-17T17:06:25.442-04:00Back in the saddle?It's been well over a month since I have posted on here. 36 days to be exact, but who's counting? Of course, I've been one busy gal. In the past 30 days, I have officially wrapped up my first year of graduate school (I got all A's!), completed my internship (to be resumed in Fall 2011), and have certainly been working my tail off at two part-time jobs (Butler County Rape Crisis Program and now officially <a href="http://womenhelpingwomen.org/">Women Helping Women</a>--did I forget to mention that?)<br /><br />Even now that it's summer, I'm still plenty busy, with an increase in program assistant hours in Oxford and a few extra on-call shifts with WHW in Cincinnati, as well as weekly volunteer hours at <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2011/01/just-intern.html">Santa Maria</a>. Yep--I liked interning at Santa Maria so much that I just couldn't walk away from two weekly activities: my <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2011/01/meals-on-wheels.html">Meals-on-Wheels route </a>to several elderly ladies in Price Hill, and my youth group which I co-facilitate with the Youth Program Manager. Next fall when school and internship resume, I will be fully immersed in my administration specialty track, so I won't be able to devote any time to my kids or ladies. Hopefully this summer I can share more about some of my adventures with all of these activities.<br /><br />On the homefront, Taylor and I are keeping plenty busy, as well. We've been gardening and landscaping, and making a few house updates (which I'll share), as well. Sadly, our family has experienced some other changes of late, as we recently lost our dear little Louise on May 28th. Her health kept deteriorating to the point where she didn't want to eat or do much of anything anymore, and we knew the time had finally come to say goodbye. It was a tough decision, but the right one, and we miss her all the time. We're lucky to still have our sweet 16-year old Thelma, but it just isn't the same without her other half.<br /><br />So with the summer underway, I am optimistic I will be able to crank out more than 3 posts/month, which seems to be the going rate right now. Hey, sorry about that. I'm back!Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-63239395176169016422011-05-12T10:19:00.000-04:002011-05-13T16:41:56.756-04:00More changes in Butler CountyThis past February, the president and CEO of Butler County United Way resigned to take a job in another state. The resignation was sudden, but the county was hopeful something positive could emerge from this situation. For months, we've watched as the search committee interviewed candidates from around the country, and we've been waiting with anticipation to hear who would be selected as the new CEO.<br /><br />This morning the <a href="http://www.pulsejournal.com/news/local-news/jewett-resigns-from-county-commission-to-lead-butler-county-united-way-1158760.html">Hamilton Journal-News reported</a> Bruce Jewett, the county administrator and former director of Job and Family Services, resigned from public service to accept the president/CEO position at Butler County United Way.<br /><br />I'm not sure what is in store in the coming weeks, months, or even years for this county. No one can be. But I hope that the leader of this organization can strengthen our community through innovative problem-solving skills, creative fundraising, and effective leadership. We need someone who will listen to the leaders of our community, and act with their best interests at heart. We need someone who will act with integrity and wisdom and humility.<br /><br />I hope Bruce Jewett will be that someone for Butler County.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-75231218688214768852011-05-09T21:16:00.002-04:002011-05-09T21:48:49.439-04:00Deja vu all over againLast month I mentioned a couple of <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2011/04/peer-support.html">pending grants</a> we had out to our funders for the Butler County Rape Crisis Program. We've been working really hard to narrow our cash match deficit and keep our federal grants after experiencing last year's devastating cuts from the Butler County United Way (read more about that <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2010/06/united-way-cuts.html">here</a>). And you know what? We've done a great job! In the last quarter of the year we are only a few grand away from 100% and I have no worries we will make our goal.<br /><br />But now it's time to think about NEXT fiscal year starting at the end of this summer (at least I think--each funder has its own funding cycle). Anyway, despite being burned last year, we applied for funding again for the upcoming fiscal year, crossed our fingers, and hoped for the best. But wouldn't you know, it's deja vu all over again. Yes, once again, we have been denied funding from Butler County United Way. Which means before we even start the fiscal year, we are down $34,000 toward our cash match needed to secure our big federal grants.<br /><br />It's a bummer, no doubt. But the silver lining in all of this is that because we experienced this last year (and we're making it through now!) we know we can weather the storm again. So we will pout a little bit (at least I will), lick our wounds, and move on. With a little creativity, a lot more grant-writing, and a little luck, we'll get through. Of course, any tips, ideas, or dollars from the blogosphere peanut gallery would be much appreciated. Just sayin'.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-37473174048686204132011-05-08T23:10:00.002-04:002011-05-08T23:32:29.904-04:00Like mother, like daughterHappy Mother's Day! Today I took a timeout from work, school, and internship to enjoy some quality time with my mom. I saw her 2 weeks ago for Easter, and this weekend we celebrated my 24th birthday and, of course, Mother's Day. My mom and dad arrived in Cincinnati late this morning, and we were off and running. While my dad played a quick nine holes at a local golf course, my mom and I enjoyed a Chinese food lunch and shopping excursion before rejoining my dad and Taylor at our house. From there we went to my favorite park in Cincinnati--Friendship Park--for a walk along the river. Here's a picture from the park:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzvIwb8vGvZw6Sd8Pjh3u1D3PElLl4c5nAOhvJQJTji1tqma1wHWp-y_e6xCb47or6L1HoW2lJWdxe-Xefy934h5ryVN7lQAYY1XX8jhE27OuArAN6ORqBrqojy21pgmnSuZmBDeS0Np8/s1600/241060_164540130272435_100001493467403_399183_6556666_o.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 180px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzvIwb8vGvZw6Sd8Pjh3u1D3PElLl4c5nAOhvJQJTji1tqma1wHWp-y_e6xCb47or6L1HoW2lJWdxe-Xefy934h5ryVN7lQAYY1XX8jhE27OuArAN6ORqBrqojy21pgmnSuZmBDeS0Np8/s320/241060_164540130272435_100001493467403_399183_6556666_o.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5604548444782239890" border="0" /></a>For the first time in a loooong while, the sun was shining and the weather was warm and dry, perfect for a walk in the park. Eventually we headed back to our house and out to dinner where we heard some of the stories from this time 24 years ago when my mom took me home from the hospital for the first time on her first Mother's Day in 1987. By 8:30, Taylor was off to work overnight and my parents were on the road.<br /><br />It was a great day, and I am sad that they can't happen more often. Right now, a 4-hour round trip isn't always feasible with only one day of the week open for visits. I look forward to the end of the school year (and eventually the end of this degree!) when my schedule gets a little less hectic. In the meantime, I need to enjoy the time I get with my family without feeling guilty for not doing homework the whole time!Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-58535316856927658262011-04-28T14:39:00.002-04:002011-04-28T15:20:11.042-04:00These boots were made for walkingNow that the rain has stopped, are you looking for something fun to do outside while also making social change in your community? I thought you might be! Well, you're in luck. Here are a couple of events in Butler and Hamilton Counties that you can enjoy while also raising awareness of sexual violence in our community:<br /><br /><strong>Friday, April 29, 2011: </strong><a href="http://www.walkamileinhershoes.org/#"><strong>Walk a Mile in Her Shoes</strong></a>. What could be better than men, high-heeled shoes, and a half mile track? Put them all together and you get Walk a Mile--an event emphasizing healthy gender relations in which men "walk a mile in her shoes"--literally. <strong>You can attend the mile walk at Cook Field on Miami University's Oxford campus tomorrow at 4 p.m., </strong>followed by a high-heeled sprint at 5 p.m. Look for me at Butler County Rape Crisis Program's table!<br /><br /><strong>Friday, April 29, 2011: <a href="http://www.takebackthenight.org/">Take Back the Night</a>. </strong>If you live in the Cincinnati/NKY area, then perhaps you would enjoy walking with your sisters in solidarity at the Take Back the Night march. <strong>Rally at Sawyer Point at 6:30</strong>, then take the march across the Taylor Southgate Bridge to the Millenium Peace Bell in Newport, KY. The event empowers women to take back the night by not walking in fear of sexual violence or victimization. This year marks the 22nd annual TBTN march, hosted by <a href="http://womenhelpingwomen.org/events/take-back-the-night/">Women Helping Women</a>.<br /><br />I know what you're thinking--sexual violence isn't really my cup of tea. Well, duh. But if we stay silent and keep pretending it isn't real and doesn't happen in our community, then more women will continue to suffer in silence. So tomorrow, stand up for your sisters, your mother, your friends, your aunt--for yourself! Together we can make social change.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-3392559964198529462011-04-26T23:17:00.002-04:002011-04-27T00:38:03.293-04:00Peer supportA couple of months ago, my boss at the Butler County Rape Crisis Program received word about a grant opportunity through the Ohio Department of Health. As a person who has been directly involved in the grant-seeking/grant-writing process over the past few months, I cringed at the news. I envisioned more late nights staring at a jumble of words, numbers, and dollar signs, and desperately dashing to meet the deadline (at the very last minute, of course). But this grant was different--instead of us jumping through a ton of hoops, all we had to do was express interest, briefly outline how we would spend the money, and wait for confirmation. And by "we," I really mean "not me." I didn't have to do a thing, which made the whole deal even sweeter.<br /><br />Correction--I did have to do a small thing--I had to agree to help spend the money. Um, score! You would think it would have been a no-brainer--through some money to even the cash match deficit and call it a day. But no--turns out ODH money can be used for pretty much anything BUT leveraging state or federal funds.<br /><br />(By the way, that cash match deficit has been slowly shrinking after revenue we received from the Vagina Monologues, not to mention anticipated funding from two grants I wrote in March--one to West Chester Community Foundation and one to Butler County United Way (yes-we're trying again for next fiscal year. Fingers crossed!)<br /><br />Anyway, to spend the money, Jane asked me to help co-facilitate a group with a co-worker, Cindy. Long story short, our schedules didn't coincide, so she and Jane are facilitating one group, and I am co-facilitating a different group with our legal advocate, Jennifer. I've been putting a lot of time into recruitment, preparation, and planning over the past few weeks (which is partly why I've been so silent on here--that and I also got lazy. Hey, I'm honest.) I created a flyer, made calls to recruit for both groups, reviewed group procedures, created confidentiality and evaluation forms, bought a boat-load of snacks and drinks, and sketched out a general outline for the first night. As of Sunday evening, I had a few people confirmed to come to each of our Monday and Tuesday night groups, so imagine our surprise when we had a very low turnout. While many people might be disappointed by this outcome, Jennifer and I ended up feeling very encouraged. In talking with our single group participant on Monday, we realized there is a need for the support group--we just need to do a better job finding and inviting survivors into the group. It's very hard to convince someone to come out to a group on a weeknight for an hour and a half and talk about something you would rather not think about ever again. We get that--but once they get here, they will hopefully find the experience to be very supportive and beneficial. It's a tough obstacle, but we will do better. This week I'll put in more time for more brainstorming and problem-solving, and hopefully we'll double or even triple our turnout next week!<br /><br />Whatever happens, though, our first week is out of the way, and I am feeling much more confident heading into subsequent group sessions. This has not only been a valuable lesson in group work and co-facilitation, but also in patience and problem-solving. All the makings of a good social worker, I guess! I'm grateful for the opportunity to continue to be part of this project, and I'm hoping it will grow over the next two months.<br /><br />If you or a woman you know live in the Butler County area, are a survivor of sexual assault or sexual abuse, and are interested in participating in a support group, give us a call--513-523-4149. The groups will be available through the last week of June, and are offered Monday or Tuesday nights from 6-7:30. A support group for Spanish-speaking women will be available soon, too. Check it out!Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-29062099840796003412011-04-23T22:51:00.004-04:002011-04-23T23:04:28.715-04:00In my Easter bonnetWell, after about a 30-day hiatus, I figure I should post SOMETHING on here. I apologize for the long silence from my end--I think this might be a new record of blog inactivity for me. I let myself get a little too caught up in school/internship/work/house (and just about in that order) to check in with you, my faithful readers. (You are still faithful, right?) So hopefully we'll see an uptick of posts here in the coming weeks. Though, admittedly anything will be better than...nothing.<br /><br />In the meantime, while I get my act together, I'd like to offer this token of peace and goodwill--a cute baby picture from Easters past:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOsdBZ3XJDiG70DZyrL5BqM5BFVJl4M5SuROUSuf1skK20QKToy7hXSu1o0nofMj-WFDrLEiMCLNwUgTjFFw1_myEctuh8gjgPK_p0qubpqzh_qUe-2k0Kf1nNs3u-LvgbYBGeqqx_jP8/s1600/scan0003.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOsdBZ3XJDiG70DZyrL5BqM5BFVJl4M5SuROUSuf1skK20QKToy7hXSu1o0nofMj-WFDrLEiMCLNwUgTjFFw1_myEctuh8gjgPK_p0qubpqzh_qUe-2k0Kf1nNs3u-LvgbYBGeqqx_jP8/s320/scan0003.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5598978197347199426" border="0" /></a>Yes, that is me wearing a pink frock, white bonnet, and even though you can't see them, lace socks. And white dress shoes. My expression is one of confusion, probably as my dad says off camera, "No Katie, the eggs go in the basket. In the basket. Put them IN the basket." I guess I've just always known it's best not to put all your eggs in one basket. Ha! Zing!<br /><br />So, Happy Easter! And with that, let my blog, too, be resurrected from the dead on this fine holiday. See what I did there? Oh yeah--I'm back!Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-73929688732967895772011-03-26T23:08:00.002-04:002011-03-26T23:28:20.437-04:00Santa Maria's Annual Italian Dinner<div style="text-align: center;">If you are in the Cincinnati area, plan on enjoying delicious food with us at Santa Maria's Italian Dinner! The event takes place tomorrow evening, <span style="font-weight: bold;">Sunday, March 27th, at St. Simon Church, 825 Pontius Road in Delhi</span>. Arrive any time between <span style="font-weight: bold;">4:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m.</span> for a fun-filled evening with Santa Maria.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;">On the menu: spaghetti and meat sauce/meatballs, salad, bread, desserts, and a range of beverages, all graciously donated by talented chefs from local restaurants.<br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Disclaimer: No food was harmed in the making of this meal by inexperienced interns.</span><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;">We will also have an accordion player roaming through the meal, as well as a ton of raffle drawings and prizes that you won't want to miss. Dinner is <span style="font-weight: bold;">$10/adult, $5/child </span>(under age 10), and don't forget about those raffle tickets! $3.00 each or 2 for $5.00 could win you half the pot, not to mention a fabulous gift basket of goodies.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;">So join us for delicious food, fantastic entertainment, and fabulous prizes tomorrow night. I'll see you there!<br /></div>Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-69221489306024323482011-03-23T12:37:00.017-04:002011-03-23T13:13:54.234-04:00Year one is doneOn Sunday, March 20th, Taylor and I celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary with a weekend getaway! Because I'm a giver, I will share the weekend in pictures:<br /><br />We arrived in the little town of Leavenworth, Indiana, on Sunday afternoon where we stayed the night at a local Bed & Breakfast appropriately named Leavenworth Inn. <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgT_20BRquRZwpo93t4opUxSEZxucYIlNHuVlzkCgiYPLA8V6WobZ7hVcf4BX0LQ4rQoqWXBfkhw1fTqAjghn6ubEn_CBvVSuXpCWMuRWRHIOtNqZbDcWGB-PQN5cIDInpu_-3B1xYAYR4/s1600/P3200053.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIadEH9eQtMx-gXYDpGN6PxSyhPc3FSv_i7R4hAo40dKDMGcMm9biya1BiV0MKkFhioJAGOkfmN6My1DJT0nLghJx4ZpmAqQnc8HhXHanLF30OfOxnnqnfqzS-I1SXhyrBMHLxCEnTFu8/s1600/P3200054.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIadEH9eQtMx-gXYDpGN6PxSyhPc3FSv_i7R4hAo40dKDMGcMm9biya1BiV0MKkFhioJAGOkfmN6My1DJT0nLghJx4ZpmAqQnc8HhXHanLF30OfOxnnqnfqzS-I1SXhyrBMHLxCEnTFu8/s320/P3200054.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587319097938027538" border="0" /></a>The Inn was comprised of several smaller structures on the grounds. Below is The Cottage where we stayed in the "Sweet William" room. In the evening we sat in the rocking chairs on the porch and watched the barges come up the river.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwc3Trbjy7Ih5idhet1aqbV4Mdi_BUeaSGOFh2uGH4SiHLXb50qxumNjM_IR-0Y86Fv4WOuWyPVNKnsABcD9HUVg3aYHMXMdb2HP-Rngjm4XG4gVt621wCoX8v5sc1HOodM2Df_jIqhYI/s1600/P3200037.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwc3Trbjy7Ih5idhet1aqbV4Mdi_BUeaSGOFh2uGH4SiHLXb50qxumNjM_IR-0Y86Fv4WOuWyPVNKnsABcD9HUVg3aYHMXMdb2HP-Rngjm4XG4gVt621wCoX8v5sc1HOodM2Df_jIqhYI/s320/P3200037.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587320073303941202" border="0" /></a><br />It was a beautiful weekend, much like it was on our wedding day one year ago. Shortly after we arrived we found a little gazebo where we enjoyed some really pretty scenic river views (like this one) in the hills of southeastern Indiana.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrcNE5UPbchBlpPQR13ioCffeePBEBB7FD6jGS7sROto2E8UluGwzGqzztfh-LlK371dVwW3uhxSBT6dpqTtulmQF-XLzNcDd9VMdxPQ5_RIFvQ8ea3lpM4J-qS5vWinKDPDzI8RcHl2I/s1600/P3210061.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrcNE5UPbchBlpPQR13ioCffeePBEBB7FD6jGS7sROto2E8UluGwzGqzztfh-LlK371dVwW3uhxSBT6dpqTtulmQF-XLzNcDd9VMdxPQ5_RIFvQ8ea3lpM4J-qS5vWinKDPDzI8RcHl2I/s320/P3210061.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587320748774761602" border="0" /></a><span style="font-style: italic;">Please note Taylor's recently purchased Aviator sunglasses. He loves them so much he wears them indoors. Fortunately it was warm and sunny, appropriate sunglasses weather.</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHyuODW0gEw8dx-DyeGr99SYnKoajBGXXrODAP8PZHEJSuWGS8ks_bXVIesHTCTXFUmNWJziFitvvQjrGIqRwDODtvZT1RS-MDkGdlYa0Uql4E9tNkVWk9IbKK8bVJ5Xdg8Y4VAufBhUU/s1600/P3200050.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHyuODW0gEw8dx-DyeGr99SYnKoajBGXXrODAP8PZHEJSuWGS8ks_bXVIesHTCTXFUmNWJziFitvvQjrGIqRwDODtvZT1RS-MDkGdlYa0Uql4E9tNkVWk9IbKK8bVJ5Xdg8Y4VAufBhUU/s320/P3200050.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587316732838788578" border="0" /></a>A little while later we took a walk into the little town where we discovered this old fire truck parked at City Hall. We thought it was so cool we went back to snap more pictures before leaving the next morning.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_UrlqxaIPNNOjG1-T9yEgx0LKlZ7LefgyZNJd1JCO_bBxAvlrGnD__MAB1XtXZT4NbJIuwEzuo7-oYn-2Py-rO3C4IqrJk1LuADBIWAdZY1R0fyBkTajJERW8QThXJf4lN6pMmEkzvPs/s1600/P3200040.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_UrlqxaIPNNOjG1-T9yEgx0LKlZ7LefgyZNJd1JCO_bBxAvlrGnD__MAB1XtXZT4NbJIuwEzuo7-oYn-2Py-rO3C4IqrJk1LuADBIWAdZY1R0fyBkTajJERW8QThXJf4lN6pMmEkzvPs/s320/P3200040.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587317838943449602" border="0" /></a>Later that evening we walked to the Overlook Restaurant, which as you might have guessed, overlooked the Ohio River. Note to self: when ordering catfish, pay close attention to the description of the dish, otherwise you will find a fish with bones, fins, and tail still in tact. After a mild freak out, Taylor filleted the fish for me and I was able to enjoy my dinner.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgetmcV-UzDRMnER2J2jdUr5-42tVe5p6kC7-pKJcOdbtY01Tht3NSBhoOQojF2lESB55iMGcHViauMfwocI19AIWBZTqVHLiwQ8DEPkPbOTrIpQ0h8N1ckvocQXvzy7xLJ_0XT9hCOeoo/s1600/P3200051.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgetmcV-UzDRMnER2J2jdUr5-42tVe5p6kC7-pKJcOdbtY01Tht3NSBhoOQojF2lESB55iMGcHViauMfwocI19AIWBZTqVHLiwQ8DEPkPbOTrIpQ0h8N1ckvocQXvzy7xLJ_0XT9hCOeoo/s320/P3200051.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587317329197377074" border="0" /></a>On Monday morning we awoke refreshed and hungry! Thank goodness for a hearty breakfast of french toast, sausage, fruit, juice, coffee, and tea at the main house (pictured below). We enjoyed meeting two other couples staying at the Inn, one celebrating 41 years of marriage next week!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRNPOoSgMS0k_i9NjeTECzAl6O5ZqWEjOrxZoXZIJ000FEzLop7KKzJZ7pVxNugd0sq1nufUr5OLK1NdhI23n0-q-S-GkF2kbfEje2ZrR8O1yZMYmt6MXPpeJNIU4Vi4W5pFPsfpC8YR8/s1600/P3200028.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRNPOoSgMS0k_i9NjeTECzAl6O5ZqWEjOrxZoXZIJ000FEzLop7KKzJZ7pVxNugd0sq1nufUr5OLK1NdhI23n0-q-S-GkF2kbfEje2ZrR8O1yZMYmt6MXPpeJNIU4Vi4W5pFPsfpC8YR8/s320/P3200028.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587316980397812866" border="0" /></a>After breakfast, we journeyed back across the river to Louisville, KY, where we took a self-guided walking tour of historic homes in "Old Louisville." This house was one of my favorites:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik8pqT5XgI-J0NUb3XwuHPLYY5Fpuk6ebRGp9HoSeylQ8LNKTUFupdHa1oGUPjX1iTzA7I0W8yIg4jdgKzrGj_1FyhQv_zo-w5vNbKHwe6R3f-PneQN8wsu72BzhjGfWHAZcw8vRStLVs/s1600/P3210068.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik8pqT5XgI-J0NUb3XwuHPLYY5Fpuk6ebRGp9HoSeylQ8LNKTUFupdHa1oGUPjX1iTzA7I0W8yIg4jdgKzrGj_1FyhQv_zo-w5vNbKHwe6R3f-PneQN8wsu72BzhjGfWHAZcw8vRStLVs/s320/P3210068.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587317613425664114" border="0" /></a><br />Then we used our reciprocal Cincinnati Museum Center membership at the Louisville Science Center. The museum was largely for kids (and wasn't that great, to be honest), but we had a nice walk around the building before taking one last picture in front of a big metallic, mirrored disk thing outside:<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHEo125EsulkZrbGejMCOWwnSdvyPexzWS61K-8qt6GtAl4uptldFXWK04c8qkKg691Gui5k3Ny7cTRolPqESuOiGNtllLkymXTiUGypTRzUZoCoqZDwYmXLFpmp_nRJrp7m9U8CF_TkQ/s1600/P3210073.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHEo125EsulkZrbGejMCOWwnSdvyPexzWS61K-8qt6GtAl4uptldFXWK04c8qkKg691Gui5k3Ny7cTRolPqESuOiGNtllLkymXTiUGypTRzUZoCoqZDwYmXLFpmp_nRJrp7m9U8CF_TkQ/s320/P3210073.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5587323944986313218" border="0" /></a>And there you have it! The perfect way to end our first year of marriage and begin the second one. It's hard to believe it's already been one year, but I guess time flies when you're having fun!Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-33843684915771528682011-03-17T13:36:00.003-04:002011-03-17T14:02:57.236-04:00At the end of the second quarter...Sounds like a line from an announcer at a football game, but NO--this is about me, me, me!<br /><br />Just minutes ago, I emailed my last final exam to my professor, marking the end of my second quarter of graduate school. It's a tremendous weight lifted off of my shoulders, and I must say, a big accomplishment. At this point, I have completed one third of my graduate school education! Can you believe it?<br /><br />Just like <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2010/12/end-is-near.html">last quarter</a>, here's a list of things I learned and did at school:<br /><ul><li>Attended a personal safety seminar; learned how to assess risks and implement techniques to deescalate dangerous situations</li><li>Wrote two reflections on my experiences with personal safety in the workplace</li><li>Created a comprehensive genogram outlining relationships, patterns, and history in my family for four generations</li><li>Researched and wrote an extensive paper on my family of origin, including more than ten sources of information</li><li>Analyzed the impact of race, class, and gender in colonial and modern families</li><li>Wrote an in-depth organizational review of my field placement site, Santa Maria Community Services</li><li>Engaged in exercises surrounding ethical dilemmas in social work</li><li>Applied the National Association of Social Workers code of ethics to two case studies</li><li>Created an eco-map showing all of the systems of a case study family</li><li>Completed a process recording following an in-class role play scenario in which I had to write verbatim what the client and social worker said in a session, including non-verbals, from memory.</li><li>Created a treatment plan for a case study client</li><li>Completed a comprehensive assessment, including mental status exam, for a sample client on video</li><li>Attended an all -day grant-writing workshop; learned how to write clear, realistic goals, objectives, outcomes, and indicators for funders</li></ul>It's hard to believe I did all of that in ten weeks. No wonder I'm exhausted! Oh and that's just the stuff I did in the classroom--I haven't even touched my activities in my internship! We'll save that for another day.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-49658242983578737632011-03-14T17:46:00.003-04:002011-03-14T20:05:00.875-04:00Tax Breaks and Budget CutsI saw this link posted on a friend's <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Facebook</span> wall, and I couldn't not share it. Unless you've been living under a rock, you've heard a lot of talk of balancing budgets and reducing state and national deficits. You probably have some ideas on how to reduce budget deficits, and depending on your political ideology, they involve cutting spending or utilizing taxes. But what is the best course of action?<br /><br />Well, the folks over at Center for American Progress decided to compare and contrast making spending cuts vs. reducing tax breaks, as seen <a href="http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/2011/02/tax_breaks_infographic.html">here</a>. And it's eye-opening. In the chart you'll see large sums of money that could be eliminated from the budget, depending on what gets cut. For example, low-income housing programs cost the nation $8.9 billion, which is the same cost of allowing mortgage interest deductions on vacation homes over ten years. Or how about $2.5 billion, which could be saved by either eliminating Low Income Home Energy Assistance (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">LIHEAP</span>) grants for poor families, or ending tax breaks for oil companies. And, one last particularly striking figure: $44 billion. That's how much the government would save by cutting all of the programs on Center for American Progress' list vs. the $42 billion which would be saved by not extending Bush era tax cuts for upper tax brackets in fiscal year 2012.<br /><br />According to this article, "The Federal Treasury loses twice as much revenue due to tax breaks than Congress appropriates on all <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">nonsecurity</span> discretionary spending." And yet, all of the current budget talks have been focused on cutting spending, not eliminating monstrous tax breaks for the elite few. I believe the reason for this is that spending items have a tangible presence on a budget--tax breaks do not. Psychologically, we feel better slashing the dollar signs we see on the surface, rather than looking at the deeper, wider budget picture.<br /><br />I have a liberal ideology, and I believe government has a place in our lives to do good. Quality programming and services cost money, and I don't take that lightly. But we certainly need to have an intelligent conversation about just that. I believe these budget crises could be resolved if we evaluate our values and prioritize our spending and saving accordingly.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-29309932698753160492011-03-12T22:28:00.003-05:002011-03-12T23:40:33.839-05:00Cleopatra's in CincinnatiToday I had the chance to go with my BFF to the Cincinnati Museum Center for a special exhibit on Cleopatra. They didn't allow any photography inside the exhibit, but you can click <a href="http://www.cincymuseum.org/cleopatra/">here</a> to see some images and videos of the display. I highly recommend checking out the exhibit in person, though--it's <span style="font-style: italic;">amazing!</span> You've got until September 5th. Here's a blurb from the website:<br /><blockquote><p class="style56" style="margin-bottom: 0pt;">CLEOPATRA: THE SEARCH FOR THE LAST QUEEN OF EGYPT</p> <p class="style57" style="margin-top: 0pt;">NOW OPEN!</p> <p><span class="style50">The world of Cleopatra VII, which has been lost to the sea and sand for nearly 2,000 years, has surfaced at Cincinnati Museum Center with <i>Cleopatra: The Search for the Last Queen of Egypt</i>. On view through September 5, 2011, the exhibition features nearly 150 artifacts from Cleopatra’s time and will take you inside the present-day search for the elusive queen, which extends from the sands of Egypt to the depths of the Bay of Aboukir near Alexandria. See statuary, jewelry, daily items, coins and religious tokens that archaeologists have uncovered from the time surrounding Cleopatra’s rule, all of which are visiting the U.S. for the first time.</span></p><p><span class="style50"><br /></span></p></blockquote>Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-31015414705325473032011-03-08T08:53:00.000-05:002011-03-08T08:53:26.245-05:00Ten years later<a href="http://www.wcpo.com/dpp/news/news_archives/what-is-the-ten-years-later-project?">What is the Ten Years Later project?</a><br /><br />I heard about this project last night on Channel 9 WCPO News, and I highly recommend it.<br /><br />Ten years ago this April, Cincinnati experienced serious race riots after a series of police shootings of African American suspects. In fact, here is one of the original stories written at the start of the riots:<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><blockquote><p> <strong>This story was originally posted on April 9, 2001:</strong> The anger over this latest deadly shooting is at least partially due to the number of African American suspects who have been shot and killed by on-duty Cincinnati police recently.</p> <p>Since January 1995, Cincinnati Police on duty have killed 15 African American men.</p> <p>Fourteen of the 15 suspects were shot to death.</p> <p>No white suspects have been killed during that same timespan.</p> <p>This is the second deadly shooting by Cincinnati police so far this year.</p><br /></blockquote></span>Now WCPO is investigating the state of the city ten years later. In a 30-day special project, reporters will feature community dialogue on current racial relations in Cincinnati, showing how far we have come as a city and how far we still have to go.<br /><br />With 52 distinct neighborhoods in Cincinnati, there's bound to be differences in racial relations among each population. It will be interesting to see what people have to say, but more importantly, it will be good to see people talking about such a controversial and often taboo topic.<br /><p> <strong></strong></p><strong><blockquote></blockquote></strong><p></p>Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-17114407263284138192011-03-07T17:44:00.000-05:002011-03-07T17:44:29.632-05:00Police Say Homeless Man Not Beaten To Death<a href="http://www.local12.com/s/e4HrbRnWjUCufdPLztVbxQ.cspx">Police Say Homeless Man Not Beaten To Death</a><br /><br />I heard about this sad story this morning. Billy Joe Begley was a chronically homeless man from Price Hill who was found unconscious last Wednesday behind Santa Maria's East Price Hill location, next to the Price Hill library. He later died over the weekend, and there are now conflicting reports about his cause of death. Originally, his death was thought to be a homicide due to the severity of the injuries he sustained to his face and chest, in addition to a missing wallet and money. But now police are saying he died from a fall caused by some kind of medical condition.<br /><br />I don't have any answers. What I do know is what staff members at Santa Maria have told me--that Billy was a frequent, harmless visitor at Santa Maria and his death leaves a sad space for all who knew him. We are all left wondering what, if anything, else we could have done to help him; what else we could have done to prevent this tragedy.<br /><br />I would like to think the police from District 3 are using the extent of their resources to fully investigate Billy's death. I have to wonder, though, if the fact that Billy was homeless has any bearing on the priority of this case. Regardless of his living conditions, Billy is a human being who deserves to be treated with respect, even in death.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-48697282179324611812011-02-26T15:24:00.002-05:002011-02-26T17:26:50.255-05:00VacanciesIt's been a [busy] week since my last post, and I find myself charging full steam ahead into my 9th of 10 weeks of my second quarter of graduate school. I'm not particularly gifted in time right now, but I did want to post an interesting <a href="http://news.cincinnati.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/201102251030/NEWS01/102260317">article</a> about my neighborhood, more specifically, vacant buildings in my neighborhood.<br /><br />It's no secret I intern and live in a "rough" part of town with its fair share of problems. And it's important to remember that people aren't solely to blame for all of their problems. Any social worker worth their salt knows the environment plays a leading role in the big picture of poverty. This quote from a city inspector tells the story:<br /><p></p><blockquote><p>"Here's a prime example of how vacant buildings create a domino effect to ruin a neighborhood," Bohnert said.</p><p>Once a house becomes vacant, "kids break out the windows. Then vandals take all of the copper pipes and anything of value. They knock holes in the walls and the roof. Water gets in. Floors buckle. Plaster and drywall fall apart. The interior is ruined. Garbage gets dumped in the yard. No one wants to live there. The house gets boarded up.</p><p>"No one wants to live next to a vacant house. So, the process repeats. Neighbors move out. One house after another gets boarded up."</p></blockquote>So read the article (and view the slideshow) for a closer look at Price Hill, Sedamsville, Westwood, and Fairmount, to name a few increasingly vacant neighborhoods. It might shed some light on what we're working with here.<br /><p></p>Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-5308234848491042892011-02-19T10:01:00.002-05:002011-02-19T10:28:53.124-05:00Dare I Say?Tonight concludes <a href="http://events.vday.org/?search[order]=&season_id=16&search[for_country]=&search[for_state]=OH">Miami University's production of Vagina Monologues</a>, and if you haven't been yet, tonight is your night! I went with the staff ladies from Rape Crisis last night, and we had a blast.<br /><br />It appeared other audience members had a good time, too. We met a few performance-goers at our display table before and after the show, where we officially launched our newest awareness initiative that I alluded to in <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2011/02/acceptance-speech.html">this post</a>.<br /><br />Drum roll, please! It's called <a href="http://dareisay.webs.com/">Dare I Say?</a> and as our volunteer coordinator Becky eloquently put it, is in the style of the <a href="http://postsecretarchive.com/"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">PostSecret</span> books</a> with the message of the <a href="http://www.clotheslineproject.org/">Clothesline Project</a>. In other words, we're asking for postcard submissions from the community speaking out about issues of rape, sexual assault, and abuse in our society. If you click <a href="http://dareisay.webs.com/">here</a>, you can see a few examples. Some are funny, some are hopeful, some are angry, but all are powerful. Once we amass enough cards, we will display them around the county during Sexual Assault Awareness month in April.<br /><br />The beauty of this project is that it gives all people a voice to speak up about this issue, with the comfort of anonymity. It's an opportunity to use creativity through art, imagery, and words to speak out about an issue that is often taboo in our society.<br /><br />To submit your own postcard (or two or three or seven), mail us a 4 x 6" postcard with your message to:<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">Butler County Rape Crisis Program<br />110 S. College St.<br />Oxford, OH 45056<br /><br />Or via email: <span class="fw_sanitized"><a href="mailto:admin@helpandhealing.org">admin@helpandhealing.org</a><br /><br />Or visit us on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=515266216561&set=a.515265962071.2021198.135000916#%21/home.php?sk=group_106458936098866">Facebook</a><br /><br /></span><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="fw_sanitized"></span>Remember, anyone can and should speak up about this issue, not just survivors of sexual assault. If you have a thought about this topic, we want to hear it <span style="font-style: italic;">and</span> see it.<br /><span class="fw_sanitized"></span></div></div>Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-16357226859255217112011-02-17T11:46:00.000-05:002011-02-17T11:46:09.903-05:00Sexual Assault and the U.S. MilitaryToday I was driving home from a meeting for my internship and I happened to hear this story on NPR:<br /><br /><a href="http://thedianerehmshow.org/shows/2011-02-17/sexual-assault-and-us-military">Sexual Assault and the U.S. Military</a><br /><br />It's about a lawsuit seventeen veterans and active-duty service members filed against the Pentagon for permitting a culture conducive to sexual assault in the military. Toward the end of the segment, a male caller from Florida weighed in saying it is important for women in the military to understand that men have more testosterone and naturally need sex more. In other words, women unrealistically expect to be "charmed and seduced" into sex, especially in a male-heavy military environment. <br /><br />These offensive remarks are the caller's constitutional right to free speech, I'll give him that. But clearly he is uneducated and, well, just plain wrong. Men don't have the right to rape just because they are men. Testosterone or not, people must be accountable for their actions. And the fact that not all men are rapists is evidence of this fact.<br /><br />My colleagues and I in rape crisis centers around the country have a lot of work to do to educate the public and reform these caveman attitudes. We <span style="font-style: italic;">all</span> have a lot of work to do. When you hear something like this, please speak up and educate those around you. Policy change and legal avenues are important, but if the people don't revise their way of thinking, they will be largely ineffective. That's how we can make social change.<br /><br />Tonight marks the beginning of the <a href="http://events.vday.org/2011/college/Miami_University,_Ohio_%28TVM%29">Vagina Monologues</a> performances at Miami University in Oxford. Women stand up in a series of rehearsed monologues to celebrate women's sexuality and strength, while also addressing women's rights, including issues of sexual assault. Proceeds will go to the Butler County Rape Crisis Program, and I would highly encourage you to check it out--consider it homework in your quest to cultivate a more educated public.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-640529784407025052011-02-15T12:30:00.002-05:002011-02-15T13:18:10.296-05:00More bandaids for school nursesIn my short time in Cincinnati, I have observed quite a bit of tension between the city council, the mayor, and the constituents of this city. The most recent round of tension? The debate over school nurses.<br /><br />The City of Cincinnati is facing a $54 million dollar deficit. That's nothing to sneeze at (pardon the pun). So how does Cincinnati reduce the deficit? Cuts. To just about everything.<br /><br />I don't want to minimize the value of a balanced budget and a city operating in the black. But it's going to be painful getting there, and services are going to suffer. Lots of services, including highly-valued police and fire. For the sake of today's post, I'm only going to focus on school nurses.<br /><br />In Cincinnati, there are 50 nurses covering 42 elementary schools. They are funded in part by the City Health Department (60%) and in part by Cincinnati Public Schools (40%). This is an unusual set up. Most school nurses throughout the state are paid through the district's school board, but not here. So when the city experiences financial strain, the schools feel it too. The proposed cuts would eliminate 35 of 50 school nurses by June, leaving a majority of the district's 33,000 students without health care.<br /><br />For many of these students, the school nurse is their only health care provider, which would make for serious implications for the students and their families. Schools will undoubtedly have to call more parents to pick up kids with minor injuries, aches, and pains that the school nurse would previously have handled with no problem. And students with more serious health issues like asthma and diabetes will be less able to manage their health at school. In this way, cutting school nurses hurts the entire community. Kids with chronic conditions won't be routinely screened and monitored, which means absenteeism will go up, academic achievement could drop, and more community resources will be used up to meet the need.<br /><br />You can read more about this issue <a href="http://news.cincinnati.com/article/20110215/NEWS0102/102150309/School-nurses-decline-duties-increase?odyssey=tabtopnewstextFRONTPAGE">here</a>, including information about state mandates for school nurses (there aren't any in Ohio), and recommended nurse-to-student ratios (1:750) that are already not being met as it is.<br /><br />If you are in the Cincinnati area and feel strongly about this issue, you there is a rally tomorrow to push city leaders to reinstate funding for school nurses. The rally will be held on Wednesday, February 16<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> at 12:45 p.m. at City Hall located at 801 Plum St., downtown. The public may also address the council at 1:30, before the regular meeting convenes at 2:00.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-78998031288284349032011-02-14T12:01:00.002-05:002011-02-14T12:23:07.977-05:00Statement of ImpactI'm a proud <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span>*VISTA alumna, having spent a year at Shared Harvest <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Foodbank</span> in national service. So this bit of news I'm about to share was truly saddening. I received an alarming email from Krupa, the current VISTA at Shared Harvest today. Here's an excerpt:<br /><br />"As you may know, Congress [the House of Representatives] is set to vote on a Continuing Resolution (CR) bill today that would extend federal spending temporarily. The bill that is currently set to be voted on completely <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">de</span>-funds the Corporation for National and Community Service. If this bill passes in its current form [in the House and Senate], all <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span> and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span>*VISTA projects will stop immediately.<br /><br />"It is critical now more than ever that we educate our elected officials about the true impact of National Service."<br /><br />The email goes on to call for brief statements of impact to be sent to <a href="http://www.blogger.com/dustin@oashf.org">Dustin <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">Speakman</span> </a>at Ohio Association for Second Harvest <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">Foodbanks</span> by 4 p.m. today. Even if you were not an <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span> service member, you know the impact this program has not only on our communities, but on the service members themselves. This blog is a testament to that very fact.<br /><br />I always want to do my civic duty and advocate for things I believe in. So I just sent my statement of impact, and I would encourage you to do the same. I'll leave you with my statement, which combined with other voices, will make social change:<br /><blockquote><p><em>Last year I dedicated a year of my life to national service at Shared Harvest <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">Foodbank</span> in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">Fairfield</span>, OH, as part of the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span>*VISTA program. It is, hands down, one of the best experiences of my life to date. I could tell you all sorts of stories about the people I helped--about the elderly woman whose monthly income I helped to increase by signing her up for food stamps, or about the thousands of school-aged kids who received school supplies because of my efforts. It goes without saying that <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span> service members make a difference in the community. But have we ever stopped to think about the effect this program has on its members? Because of my service in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span>, I have a better handle on tough issues of poverty, racism, and hunger, just to name a few. I confronted my own white, middle class privilege, and learned what compassion really means. I am more engaged in my community and my mindset has shifted from one of selfishness to service. <strong>I am truly a better citizen as a result of my national service, and I believe all young people should have the opportunity to serve their communities--to serve their country.</strong> Please continue funding the Corporation for National and Community Service. Our nation's future depends on it.</em></p><p><em>Kaitlyn Baker <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_13" class="blsp-spelling-error">Wessels</span>, </em></p><p><em><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_14" class="blsp-spelling-error">AmeriCorps</span>*VISTA alumna 2009-2010</em></p></blockquote>Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-24447426171485674442011-02-13T09:08:00.001-05:002011-02-13T09:08:01.027-05:00Striking a balanceTonight will be my last ever shift at the YWCA House of Peace. I decided to quit about two weeks ago when I finally realized I had too many balls in the air. Never mind the fact that my husband, friends, and family have been telling me that for months. But I resisted because I felt like I needed to contribute more to our household, despite Taylor's assurance that I did not. Now after more than a month of late late Sunday nights at the shelter and early Monday mornings at my internship, I'm exhausted and ready to start listening to my pals. I needed to cut something. But seeing as how my classes and internship are pretty much non-negotiable, and my work with Rape Crisis is rewarding, long-standing, and largely federally funded through my financial aid award, the House of Peace was the most logical choice to get the axe.<br /><br />So there you have it--I'm leaving House of Peace after 7 months of employment (read <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2010/08/last-day-first-day.html">here</a> about the day I started). The shelter environment is intense, and as glad as I am for this experience, I have a new perspective on shelter work. I'll gladly gain back a second day off each week, not to mention more sleep time, saved driving time, and a little more peace of mind. Still, my leaving is bittersweet as I will miss working with some very resilient shelter residents and some incredible advocates.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-32070506467754379302011-02-12T17:54:00.002-05:002011-02-12T20:41:43.384-05:00She livesAs I <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2011/02/end-of-days.html">wrote</a> last week at this time, our kitty Louise was in bad shape. In fact, she was so sick, that our veterinarian advised we begin thinking about end of life plans. Louise has been sick before--she has visited the vet's office a handful of times since last May when she came to live with us. But never before have we had to seriously consider losing her.<br /><br />So when we got the news she was in rapid decline, we trusted it was true and prepared for the worst. I spent last Wednesday and Thursday nights sleeping on the couch with Louise on my lap. It wasn't very comfortable but it felt like the right thing to do.<br /><br />Slowly over the following few days Louise started regaining her strength. She ate with more vigor, she walked with more assurance, and by Tuesday of this week she was climbing up and down the stairs with ease. She's seemingly back to her old 15-year-old self, and for now, that's a gift. We've been on an emotional roller coaster in the past few days. We don't know if we have days or months or years left, but it's all worth it if we get a little more quality time with her.<br /><br />If cats really do have nine lives, I'd say Louise is probably on her 12th. But we'll take it.Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-613439174814578027.post-35354744423850728432011-02-04T19:06:00.002-05:002011-02-04T20:29:35.782-05:00Acceptance speechI'd like to thank the Middletown Community Foundation for a $7,000 grant recently awarded to the Butler County Rape Crisis Program!<br /><br />Last November I wrote the narrative for the grant application (read about that process <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2010/11/general-grant.html">here</a>), and we just got news this week that a portion of our request will be funded. (Here's a <a href="http://www.mcfoundation.org/pr-grant0111.htm">link</a> to other highly worthy award recipients for this funding cycle.)<br /><br />We're doing everything we can to come up with local support for our program after the Butler County United Way decided to re-prioritize their funding, leaving us with a huge funding gap (read more about that <a href="http://makingsocialchange.blogspot.com/2010/06/united-way-cuts.html">here</a>). Without those funds, we aren't able to provide the cash-match to secure more than $100,000 in federal and state grants. And without that funding, we lose our program.<br /><br />This month will bring a new round of grant-writing to more local foundations, as well as a refresher grant-seeking workshop at <a href="http://www.cincinnatilibrary.org/services/grc.asp">Hamilton County Public Library</a> next weekend. And soon I will announce a new project we are officially launching later this month at the RCP to help raise awareness about sexual assault in our community. Stay tuned!<br /><br />(P.S.--Taylor tells me Louise had a good day while I was at work today. She still isn't quite herself, but she's a little stronger today and just as sweet as ever. We hate to get our hopes up, but it's nice to see her happy.)Kaitlyn Baker Wesselshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00891788881589499573noreply@blogger.com0